I also posted on 13world, rugbywar and legendsworldofsport (LWOS - an aussie forum that morphed into leagueunlimited)
I posted on rlfans prior to emigrating but found it too fragmented and so never really got back into it once I was settled here. The same was true for leagueunlimited, i really enjoyed being part of LWOS but couldn't shift over - too unwieldy, too difficult to get discussions that didn't descend into bickering.
totalrl is really the only forum/website that I've stuck with since joining t'internet generation (with the exception of google and hotmail).
I remember you being on here before you upped-sticks and headed off to the land of the long white cloud.