It is difficult to stand by whilst a 20-30 year old starts to lay into a 16 year old, so whilst what you say is true, it's not the entire picture.
The ref abandonded the match after the Thatto Heath try that would have (probably)put them in the lead because he could guarenttee the Thattos Heath players' saftey. The Thatto lads then said that they wanted walk off with the East leeds lads, together to show no hard feelings etc. So this happened.
Thatto Heath want to re-play the game they don't want a walkover/bye whatever, they want the team that gets to the final tot get there on merit, but the don't want to play it back at East leeds.
I totally agree, all i have said is that both sets os specs could have behaved better