Regular lurker than poster but.. refereed over 20 years... got to grade 2 in the UK, then emigrated to NZ. had to basically start at the bottom again but got up to refereeing Auckland premier, then in the national provincial comp, then doing NSW Cup and Holden Cup lines then a couple of NSW Cup middles.. reserve TJ for one test match, did one NRL pre-season line, but that was where I peaked and I quit in my late 30s due to kids etc and went to play over-35s football with my mates instead. The time commitment was one factor towards the end, always being the bridesmaid and never the bride another, and ultimately i got sick of the from the crowds and the coaches - the players were all fine, I got on really well with most of them.