If you imagine exiled that what you wrote here is more balanced and sane than people being upset about SB going then you really need to take a break, it's all got too much for you, and this can happen! SB leaving is a fact of life that people have to deal with in their own way. My own reaction to anyone who leaves is simple, goodbye, see ya, wouldn't wanna be ya! People come and people go and no one, repeat no one, is indispensable!
In the meantime seasons greetings to you and yours Oxford