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I wish to make it known, on these pages, that I am a transvestite, a cross-dresser, I dress in women's clothes, and make-up.

I know there will be a couple of mutton heads on here who will abuse the right of free speech to attack me, but that's your blindness.

I have been X-dressing since I was 14, so 40 years or so, My partner is fully aware of what I do, and as long as she is a size 12, and I am a size 18, she is happy I am not using her clothes. We share make up though, and wigs.

If anyone wishes to share, either on the forum, or PM, I will accept their wishes.

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I worked with a guy who is a Formula 1 fan, and travels all round Europe watching it, he recently went to Bahrain, and hated it, because there was no McDonalds, he hates foreign food, he is a pie & mash type. People are different.

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Completely your choice to do as you see fit with what makes you happy in this regard. So, well done for outing yourself, I hope it helps you.

I'd like us to get to a point in society where the overwhelming view is "and?"

"When in deadly danger, when beset by doubt; run in little circles, wave your arms and shout"

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Lots of people have used this forum to talk about "difficult" things (or things they've found "difficult").

I'm glad that you feel this is a place that will be accepting of what you've shared, and that you're in a relationship that works for you and your partner- enjoy it!

It's not a question of coming down to earth, Mr Duxbury. Some of us, Mr Duxbury, belong in the stars.

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3 hours ago, Bleep1673 said:

I wish to make it known, on these pages, that I am a transvestite, a cross-dresser, I dress in women's clothes, and make-up.

I know there will be a couple of mutton heads on here who will abuse the right of free speech to attack me, but that's your blindness.

I have been X-dressing since I was 14, so 40 years or so, My partner is fully aware of what I do, and as long as she is a size 12, and I am a size 18, she is happy I am not using her clothes. We share make up though, and wigs.

If anyone wishes to share, either on the forum, or PM, I will accept their wishes.

Thought you didn't like Rugby Union :tongue:

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Fair play to you

"Freedom without socialism is privilege and injustice, socialism without freedom is slavery and brutality" - Mikhail Bakunin

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4 hours ago, Bleep1673 said:

I worked with a guy who is a Formula 1 fan, and travels all round Europe watching it, he recently went to Bahrain, and hated it, because there was no McDonalds, he hates foreign food, he is a pie & mash type. People are different.

Now that's shocking news! :ohmy: 

Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

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I admire your post - it is great you feel so comfortable to tell us.

If I could be a little humerous I've been far more deviant on the forum today, I've written something slightly critical of Toronto lol

Seriously best wishes.

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Fair play for feeling comfortable enough to post it to a forum.

Strikes me its fairly common practice, had a conversation in my wifes shop recently, slightly out of my comfort zone as I've no first hand experience, about the pros and cons of stockings v tights, stockings won out, somewhere to tuck his cigs in and much easier when going for a pee!

As a complete aside, Smiffys fever wigs are well worth the extra money over and above your bog standard wigs that are available!

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18 hours ago, Bleep1673 said:

I thought this forum would be best, as no one has eye contact with me. I thought FACEBOOK, but too many people know me face-to-face.

I admire your bravery for making it known.

I'm sure it makes no difference as to how people here treat you. It seems you're a respected member of this community.

Learn to listen without distortion and learn to look without imagination.

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22 hours ago, Bleep1673 said:

I wish to make it known, on these pages, that I am a transvestite, a cross-dresser, I dress in women's clothes, and make-up.

I know there will be a couple of mutton heads on here who will abuse the right of free speech to attack me, but that's your blindness.

I have been X-dressing since I was 14, so 40 years or so, My partner is fully aware of what I do, and as long as she is a size 12, and I am a size 18, she is happy I am not using her clothes. We share make up though, and wigs.

If anyone wishes to share, either on the forum, or PM, I will accept their wishes.

Perhaps it is easier to share with people who do not know you as well.

Have fun.

:)

 

"You clearly have never met Bob8 then, he's like a veritable Bryan Ferry of RL." - Johnoco 19 Jul 2014

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A guy at my work stayed in the same work area for over 20 years, wore cardigans and was quiet and conservative. 

One day an all staff email (to 1000s) went out introducing his new self. He became a she (no operation), there was a new exotic stripper style name and very feminine clothes.

Boom ... all overnight. It was quite a surprise to his direct colleagues who instinctively kept using the old name occasionally but she wasn't offended as she understood.

People in the office gossiped for one day and then life moved on. She bravely put herself out there and everything was fine.

Best of luck to you.

I hope you don't watch rugby union in secret though.  :-)

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Bleep I think it's ace that you feel that you can post on here about something that I'm guessing you have worried about doing.  It says a lot about the quality of people on this wonderful forum.

We are your rugby league family. It's fine mate.

If you ever want to come out as a Salford fan though, have good think first eh? :)

 

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